NOVEMBER 2003 UPDATE
I. INTRODUCTION
It is a warm summer evening in Jerusalem. The scene:
The Village Green Restaurant, and The Event is The Second Annual Gathering
of our Israeli Mitzvah Heroes. The Rabbanit Kapach is there; Anita and
Giora Shkedi are there from The Israel National Therapeutic Riding Association-Mitzvah
Horses, Barbara Silverman, who has sent 50,000 packages of treats and
creature comforts to the soldiers, Phyllis Heimowitz, founder of the
Amuta (Non-Profit Organization) for the Emotional Support of Fiancées
(Girlfriends) of Fallen Soldiers of The Israel Defense Forces, Dr. Kieselstein,
Kalman and Malky Samuels, founders of Shalva, and many more of The Giants…names
familiar to our readers from reading our Annual Report and visiting
our website, www.ziv.org. Nearly all of our people are there, plus several
friends we have invited to share in the delight of all of this Mitzvah
power, this Ziesskeit — human sweetness — to sense first-hand just how
much individuals can do to change the lives of others who need their
wisdom, insight, and human touch. This is really the essence of Ziv:
learning from, and sitting at the feet of, these teachers of Tikkun
Olam, Masters every one of them. The event calls to mind the quote from
the late Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, “When I was young, I admired
clever people. As I grew old, I came to admire kind people.”
This is, indeed, the essence of Ziv.
I think it is best captured by the ancient Talmudic phrase,
“Ho Hum!” On any given day, Naomi, or Arnie Draiman, or I will say or
e-mail to each other in jest, “Ho Hum, just another typical Ziv day”
— referring, of course, to any number of spectacular Mitzvah happenings.
Rich moments, uplifting times, awesome encounters — these are the exhilarating
events that fill our days.
And I would add — even the restaurant was selected for good
reason. Kobi and Barry, owners of The Village Green in their previous
lives were responsible for finding jobs in Jerusalem for individuals
with disabilities. For many years, I have learned from them, and they
“get it” — their restaurant is certainly a most appropriate place for
Ziv to hold The Event.
What follows is a brief update, written jointly by Naomi and
Danny: it includes new activities, updates on some of our “regulars,”
some recent breakthroughs, needs, wish lists. Read on, and Lechaim…To
Life!
II. CONTRIBUTIONS
As you will see from the contents of this update, the demands
on Ziv’s Tzedakah money have grown. There is so much more that needs
to be done in Israel and in the United States, as well as other communities
around the world.
If you would
like to enable us to continue with, and expand, our work, please send
checks made out to “Ziv Tzedakah Fund” to:
Naomi Eisenberger,
Managing Director
Ziv Tzedakah
Fund
384 Wyoming
Ave.
Millburn, NJ
07041
973-763-9396
(phone) • 973-275-0346 (fax)
E-mail: naomi@ziv.org
www.ziv.org
You may also donate through our website, www.ziv.org. The donations
are handled through networkforgood.org, and there is a 3% charge
to us for this service.
III. OUR AGENT IN ISRAEL, ARNIE DRAIMAN – MAJOR DEVELOPMENTS
Because of a generous individual donation last winter, we were
able to increase Arnie’s hours from 1/4 to 2/3 time. We consider
this one of the most significant enhancements of our work in the past
few months, and it would be difficult to describe just how much this
has expanded our activities in Israel. So many more people have been
reached as a result of Arnie’s increased time working on our behalf.
He has kept us better informed of the activities and needs of our established
programs, investigated and worked with many more individuals in need,
introduced our work to more groups based in Israel or on year-long programs,
as well as individuals visiting for a brief period, supervised the work
of Merrill Alpert, our Chavayrat Ziv-Ziv Fellow (see below), and advised
us again and again on all matters relating to our work in Israel…besides
continuing to boost the morale of Israeli troops with our famous pizza
and schwarma parties. His work is constantly changing from day to day
and his efforts are always right on the mark. The expanded time schedule
impacts all that we do on a daily basis. Having a contact “on the ground”
in Israel, one who knows “the system” offers us immeasurable flexibility
and insight into our efforts in that country. We cannot overstress the
importance of having him right there working on our behalf. Sometimes
a Mitzvah-problem is solved that takes no more time than the click of
an e-mail or a quick phone call to or from Arnie. We think the following
story offers a fine example of what we can accomplish quickly and efficiently:
Levi (a pseudonym), an elderly Shoah survivor whom we have befriended
this past year, lives on the economic edge. In a chance conversation
with Arnie and Merrill who were visiting, Levi mentioned that he was
having trouble sleeping because he had bed bugs…proven the next morning
by Merrill, who had received a number of bites during her visit. Within
one week, Levi’s apartment was fumigated, a new mattress and new bedding
were purchased, and he is now enjoying a restful night’s sleep.
We wish Arnie a Yasher Koach on all that he does for us.
IV. MERRILL ALPERT, CHAVAYRAT ZIV-ZIV FELLOW
Merrill, recently retired after 18 years as youth director
at Valley Beth Shalom in Encino, CA, is spending several months in Israel
making the Grand Rounds of our Mitzvah heroes, visiting and learning
about our projects, studying Jewish texts on Tzedakah, Mitzvahs, and
Tikkun Olam with Arnie, and establishing her own extensive network of
Mitzvah connections on behalf of Ziv. A veteran of all five of our Mitzvah
Heroes Conferences in this country, and long-time friend of Ziv, Merrill
was the perfect candidate for this program. She brings to her experiences
in Israel tremendous insight and a warm, giving heart — both critical
components in our work.
Historically speaking, this Chavayrat/Chaver Ziv program was
long overdue. In Ziv’s Early Days, and even before Ziv was officially
established as a non-profit 501(c)(3) Tzedakah fund, other individuals
had spent 5 months to a year meeting our Mitzvah heroes and introducing
others to our work. This was more than 20 years ago. Now it is happening
again and we are excited. Merrill has very quickly immersed herself
in a wide range of Ziv activities, and we are very moved by the regular
reports she sends to us — the most common words being “Amazing!” “Wow!”
and similar terms of enthusiasm. The implications for Ziv and our projects
in Israel, both immediate, and far down the road, are enormous. So much
good will come from her work.
Indeed, we are so excited about Merrill’s work as
well as the untold benefits that will be derived if we are able to continue
this Chavayrat/Chaver Ziv program that we wish to let you — our donors
and fans — know that we very much want to continue this program in the
coming years and eagerly seek a donor(s) who might be interested in
underwriting the costs of this program in order to make it ongoing.
If you are interested or know of someone who would want to invest Tzedakah
funds in this way, please do contact Danny or Naomi. We feel very strongly
that this program, along with the Ziv Summer Intern project (which has
already proven its worth over and over again), will enable us to spread
Ziv’s message and the work of all of our programs to even more people.
A Yasher Koach to Merrill, and to Arnie, Merrill’s Rebbi and
supervisor in this revived aspect of our work.
V. COME TO ISRAEL WITH US — HEROISRAEL III
“When you visitors come and say, ‘We are thinking
about you. We want to be with you. We sympathize with you.’ It gives
us the courage to continue.”
So spoke our good friend, Amalia Oren, head social worker at
Shaare Zedek Hospital in Jerusalem, when she met the almost thirty participants
of our HeroIsrael II Mitzvah Hero Tour last February. Departing on the
eve of what was to be the start of the war in Iraq, not one of the 27
people who stepped on the plane ever imagined that this trip would be
as moving and meaningful as it was. Each and every one of them learned
soon after arriving at Ben-Gurion that life in Israel goes on and their
initial fears were quickly forgotten. It was the normalcy that truly
amazed them.
This year’s trip is being conducted in conjunction with Temple
Emanu-El of Dallas — though we are actively looking for others to join
us. While based at the historic King David Hotel, HeroIsrael participants
will have the opportunity to meet face-to-face with all of the “greats.”
Spend a morning with Barbara Silverman packing “creature comforts” and
treats for Israel’s chayalim bodedim (soldiers with no family
in Israel), sit with the Rabbanit Kapach on a Friday morning as she
responds to the poor people who ring her bell looking for a special
Shabbat food parcel, or enjoy the deep azure blue of the Mediterranean
while watching Anita Shkedi and her equine therapists carry out their
amazing therapeutic riding techniques. We invite all of you to join
us February 15-26 (this is President’s weekend) as we “make the rounds.”
Space is limited and will be filled on a first-come, first-served basis.
Further information is available by contacting Naomi at naomi@ziv.org
or at 973-763-9396. You will not forget this trip — it is unlike any
other you may have taken. More information can be found at our website,
www.ziv.org.
VI. ISRAEL: TWO IDEAS
A. Coming to Israel is critical
Come for a week, come for two. Or do what two sisters, Davina
and Barbara Dubnick, did this summer: rent an apartment, stay for 6-7
weeks or more, and live side by side with Israelis. They often joined
us on Grand Rounds visiting the Mitzvah heroes, did many hours of volunteer
work arranged by other groups, and just enjoyed being a part of day-to-day
life in Israel.
B. Buying and Sharing an Apartment
Several years ago, Highland Park Conservative Temple in New
Jersey purchased an apartment in Jerusalem for its members. The deal
is relatively simple — members may use it for two weeks if they study
Torah, loosely defined, for 3 hours a day. There is a very modest registration
fee for upkeep, but what a Mitzvah bargain! You may want to raise this
issue with your synagogue, setting your own rules, such as X number
of hours/day doing Mitzvah work, or some combination of Torah and Tzedakah
activities. It is an idea waiting to happen in so many congregations,
or for that matter for Ziv, itself — a very real investment in the Life
of Israel.
VII. SPECIAL AGENTS
One of the most exciting areas of Ziv’s expanding activities
is our “Special Agents”-Sheluchay Mitzvah category. Ever more frequently
we are able to change the lives of individuals in Israel, the United
States, and other parts of the world because of a network of individuals
who allow us to bring direct relief to people in need. In one
situation, a much-needed refrigerator, in another — rent money, in others,
a huge variety of human needs satisfied because of people we know who
can guarantee that the Mitzvah-deed is accomplished efficiently and
with no fanfare or publicity.
If this aspect of Ziv’s work particularly appeals to you, e-mail
Naomi and indicate that you want to be “on call”: Include (A) How much
you are willing to be called for, (B) how often, and (C) we ask, if
possible, that these funds be above and beyond your normal contributions.
Naomi will keep this on file and contact you as the needs arise. Often,
the personal elation we feel when we are able to fulfill these occasional
needs is greater than when we write a large check to some of our Mitzvah
heroes….If you want to share in this radiance, please be in touch.
VIII. A PHILOSOPHICAL-LOGISTICAL NOTE
At this juncture in our work, we find ourselves involved in
creating a delicate balance in our allocations. There are three areas
that we are presently emphasizing, listed in no specific order of importance:
(1) Our continued and increasing need to reach victims and survivors
of terror in Israel — them, and their families, (2) our need to reach
others in need in Israel, particularly those hit hard by the economic
difficulties created by the war in Israel that has now lasted 3 years,
and (3) the needs of our many Mitzvah heroes’ programs in the United
States and other countries. Each has its place in our work; none
will be ignored or put aside — at least according to the donations we
receive — as we continue our work.
IX. HUNGER IN ISRAEL
In addition to the ongoing war and the continued terror attacks,
there was one other issue that repeatedly presented itself to us during
our extended summer experiences in Israel. In a word — hunger. Food
insecurity and poverty are once again in the forefront of concerns in
Israel. It should come as no surprise…a country that has been fighting
for its very existence over the past few years, and has suffered from
the collapse of the high tech industry, is destined to feel the effects
of such trauma when it comes to feeding people. It is not that the country
does not have the food to feed those who are going without proper nutrition,
but rather that large portions of the population do not have the money
to buy the food that they need to sustain themselves and their families.
With such a situation, malnutrition and subsequent medical problems
are inevitable.
Soup kitchens and food pantries have always existed throughout
the country. The Rabbanit Kapach has been in the forefront of feeding
hungry people since she started her work decades ago. Indeed, this past
Pesach, her famous food distribution provided holiday basics for a record
5,000 families (i.e., approximately 20,000 people!) Her weekly
needs for wholesome food have also increased. What we saw on this visit,
however, was a proliferation of new programs all directed at
solving the problem of hunger. We also learned that serious movement
is being made in the attempt to legislate a law similar to the United
States’ Bill Emerson Good Samaritan Food Law which limits liability
to those places that donate leftover food. Two of the programs that
attracted us rely heavily upon a large corps of volunteers to carry
out their work.
A. Lev Ramot
Moshe Koth is a quiet, unassuming man who takes the problem
of hunger very seriously. For years, his group of volunteers has been
making regular nightly visits to local catering halls and army bases
to pick up the leftovers and bring them to people who are hungry. The
work is carried out very quietly and very efficiently. Volunteers
sporting a “Lev Ramot” t-shirt actually stand in the caterers’ kitchens
and pack up the leftovers directly from the trays that the wait staff
returns to the kitchen. Once packed, the food is delivered directly
to the doors of families and individuals who have been identified
as needing additional food. It is that simple — from the caterer to
the family that needs it. Moshe learns of hungry people through social
services and by word of mouth.
[Lev Ramot:
Moshe Koth, Schechtman St. 6, Jerusalem 97225, 02-586-1456, 052-864-507.
Assistant: Dr. Ron Schleifer, Bar-Ilan University. Ramat Gan Israel,
03-532-8189 (O) 02-586-8714 (h), schleir@mail.biu.ac.il.]
B. Meschulchan Leschulchan-Table to Table
Less than one year ago, Joseph Gitler, a young American lawyer
who made aliyah about three years ago, started Table to Table in the
Tel Aviv-Raanana area with a corps of volunteers to help him. The premise
is simple: volunteers pick up leftovers from between 10-20 catered events
each night and deliver them directly to more than 30 agencies and organizations
that are responsible for feeding hungry people on a regular basis. He
has more than 50 caterers who have signed on to help and recently received
funding for a refrigerated truck which has made it possible for him
to now collect from company cafeterias as well as local caterers. The
driver of this truck is the organization’s only paid employee and Table
to Table estimates that it provides more than 10,000 meals each month.
[Table to Table, Joseph Gitler, Achad Ha’am St.
54, Raanana 43211, Israel, Phone/fax 972-9-744-0313, cell 972-58-763-516.]
X. HUNGER IN AMERICA
Whether reported in newspapers, on television or radio news
segments, or magazine articles, hunger in America is increasing at an
alarming rate. Local food pantries have publicized the shortage of available
food and large regional facilities such as New York’s City Harvest are
having a very difficult time meeting the demand for food staples. Former
donors to feeding programs are now finding themselves on the receiving
end of such programs and with the continued economic downturn it would
not appear that there will be a quick end to this national problem.
Over the years, we have shared with you the stories of such Mitzvah
heroes as Syd Mandelbaum, founder of Rock and Wrap It Up!, an organization
dedicated originally to retrieving food from rock concerts and other
entertainment venues, and now schools and college campuses, of Ranya
Kelly who collects all manner of discarded items including food, of
David Levitt who was the inspiration behind food retrieval in Florida’s
public schools. See our website, www.ziv.org for links.
Today, we share with you the story of Pam Koner, a mother of
two in Westchester, New York, who was moved to respond to a story of
hunger and poverty reported in the New York Times just one year
ago. The front-page story related the harsh conditions in Pembroke,
Illinois, a rural community one hour from Chicago. In a town where there
is no bank, no pharmacy, no police force and often no paved roads, hunger
comes to town the third week of every month when food stamps run out
and the food pantry’s shelves are bare. It was this moving story that
prompted Pam to gather local families, each agreeing to “adopt” a Pembroke
family. Before the third week of the month each family appears at Pam’s
door with a box filled with the specific items Pam has requested. The
boxes are then shipped free by an anonymous shipping company. The donor
family knows the name of the family they are feeding and letter writing
is encouraged between the recipients and the donors. What started with
fifteen families has grown, in the past year to 60 families and Pam
has a list of hundreds and hundreds of others who learned of her work
and want to “adopt” a family in other locations. We must add here that
the poverty Pam is addressing is not the “average” poverty we read about.
These families live at an income level that is half the state average.
Family-to-Family, Pam’s project, is, we believe, waiting to happen in
many, many more communities. It is a deeply meaningful project for both
the donors and the recipients and we urge you all to be in touch with
Pam to learn how you can help.
[Family-to-Family, Pam Koner, 6 Circle Drive, Hastings-on-Hudson,
New York 10706, 914-478-0756, fam2family@aol.com, www.family-to-family.com.]
XI. ZIV’S WISH LIST
A. Money for Salaries
I repeat from last year and previous years — Ziv has always
had a policy of raising funds separately to pay for salaries.
We feel very strongly about not using a percentage — however small —
of donations to pay the people who work to make Ziv run so smoothly.
Finding this funding is a time-consuming and emotionally-draining struggle,
and for me, personally, my greatest worry. Once again I mention that
we are looking for a “Sugar Mommy” or “Sugar Daddy” to solve this problem.
Please contact us if you can personally facilitate this or know someone
who might want to make this happen. At this point in time, it appears
likely that this year we will not have sufficient special funds to cover
all salaries.
B. Donating Air Tickets
Ziv has saved thousands of dollars in the past few years because
individuals have donated air tickets. The tickets are used to bring
our Mitzvah heroes to the conferences and to other important events.
They will also be used to allow Naomi to participate in various programs
around North America which she would otherwise not be able to attend.
Contact Naomi for details on procedures for donating tickets to Ziv.
Contact Naomi at 973-763-9396, naomi@ziv.org. These donations are
tax-deductible.
XII. MAJOR MITZVAH MONEY
On several occasions in the last few months, a number of individuals
with substantial Tzedakah money have come to us for advice on how best
to invest their Mitzvah dollars within the Ziv framework. We are truly
honored that others believe in our work to the extent that they would
consult with us about how best to distribute their own Tzedakah funds.
This is a very welcome development, and — within the limited time available
to us — we have managed to channel significant funds from them directly
to many of our Mitzvah heroes and their projects. In no way does this
change the essential nature of Ziv’s grassroots origins and essence.
The preponderant amount of donations still come to us in small sums.
We are pleased that others, capable of accomplishing so much “in one
fell swoop,” turn to us to actualize their own ideas of Tikkun Olam.
Naomi’s and Arnie’s research efforts and assistance have made all the
difference in this new aspect of our work.
XIII. COMING TO A THEATER NEAR YOU…
For many years, we have wanted to introduce our American friends
to our Israeli Mitzvah heroes. Writing about them in our Annual Report
or bringing some of you to Israel on our HeroIsrael Mitzvah Hero tours
was one solution to this predicament but, of course, it allows only
a limited number to see, first-hand, the grandeur of their faces and
their work. How do we accomplish such a feat when thousands of miles
separate the “audience” from the “stars”? (Though they
wouldn’t consider themselves to be “stars.”)
This past summer, we were privileged to receive a special grant
from long-time supporters of our work who believe in the importance
of such encounters. The grant is being used to produce a video recording
of many of our Israeli Mitzvah heroes in action. Produced by Einat Kapach,
an award-winning cinematographer in Israel and granddaughter
of the Rabbanit Kapach, the film follows such greats as Clara Hammer
— the Chicken Lady of Jerusalem, Avshalom Beni — Israel’s foremost expert
on animal-assisted therapy, Shmuel Munk and Yoram Mordechai of Bayit
Cham, to name just a few, as they go about their life-saving Mitzvah
work. We anticipate that this video will be an invaluable teaching tool
in many different settings. For those schools and other educational
institutions where the Ziv Giraffe Tikun Olam curriculum is being used,
the video will allow students to hear and see first-hand the stories
of the very people they are studying in their classes.
While all segments of the video are now “in the can,” we are
currently working on editing and marketing this groundbreaking video
with the hope that it may be available by the Spring. Look for more
details in the April Annual Report, and on our website as well. We know
that this film will be a winner!
XIV. TO SAVE A LIFE-PIKUACH NEFESH
Just as we were going to press with our Annual Report last
spring, Ziv Tzedakah Fund became involved in a very special life-saving
effort which we know many of you, our readers, were aware of at the
time. Donna Glazer, an old friend and well-respected Jewish educator
was advised by her doctors that her chronic liver ailment could no longer
be controlled by medication and a liver transplant was the only procedure
that could offer her a chance of survival. Despite her insurance company’s
willingness to pay for pre-transplant testing, in late February Donna
was informed that her insurance would not pay for a transplant and she
was removed from the transplant list. What followed was a frenetic and
amazing flurry of activity by Donna’s friends to organize a drive to
raise the funds necessary to get her back on the transplant list and
ultimately to receive a donated liver. Within a span of approximately
three weeks, Donna’s plight was publicized through the internet and
word-of-mouth, donations literally came pouring in through the mail
and on-line giving, Donna was placed back on the transplant list and
received a new liver on March 27. Never before had we seen such an amazing
outpouring of love, concern, and giving. There was no doubt in our mind
that many, many people, both within and outside of the Jewish community,
believe in one of the most meaningful tenets of our faith, “All Israel
is responsible for one another.” We are happy to report that Donna returned
home from her surgery within weeks and continues to recover and enjoy
her new life. It was an amazing experience for all of us.
XV. ARGENTINIAN JEWS
We recommend to our readers that they contact Rabbi David Gelfand,
Rabbi of The Jewish Center of the Hampstons, who can advise them in
their efforts to make contributions on behalf of Argentinian Jews: 631-324-9858
X 204, RabbiDJG@aol.com. Rabbi Gelfand, a longtime friend of Ziv,
has been to Argentina and has excellent contacts there. He is intimately
familiar with our goals and guidelines, namely — making the greatest
impact possible on the lives of others with a minimum of bureaucracy.
XVI. A PENNY DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE
Inspired by Elie Wiesel’s comment, “One of the greatest
lessons my father taught me was to give,” Emily DuBois, a high school
senior in Palo Alto, California, and chair of her local United Synagogue
Youth Social Action committee, knew she had to do something about the
ongoing war in Israel where many of her relatives live. Her response
was the “1.5 Million Penny Drive.” With many in her family lost to the
Holocaust, Emily’s decision to raise 1.5 million pennies honors the
memory of the 1,500,000 children who were murdered by the Nazis. Now
past the $9,000 mark, Emily’s efforts have gone from a local venue to
nation-wide response. 100% of the funds collected are being transferred
to Israelis who have been personally affected by terrorist attacks and
are having difficulty in providing the most basic needs for themselves
and their families. We have been involved in Emily’s efforts by identifying
such families or individuals and making the connection to them on her
behalf. Clearly, Emily has proven that even a single penny can help
in our Tikkun Olam efforts. We invite you to learn more about her work
by visiting her website, http://esd2u.pledgepage.org. This is a fabulous
project for individuals, families or religious schools — just set out
a jug and watch the loose change pile up — it is that simple.
XVII. HOT MITZVAH ITEMS
A. Guatemalan-Kippot
Ziv and our connections sell thousands of Kippot made by Guatemalan
Mayan women. The Kippot are incredibly colorful with unusual designs
— perfect for individuals, families, classes of students, Bar and Bat
Mitzvah and weddings, and other celebrations. And….a very real
actualization of Maimonides’ highest level of Tzedakah, providing a
means of self-sufficiency for individuals. Contact Kathleen Morkert:
773-506-4905, fax: 506-4906, mayaworks-chi@attbi.com, www.mayaworks.org.
B. Ethiopian-Talitot
The North American Conference on Ethiopian Jewry
(NACOEJ), long famous for its life-saving work on behalf of our brothers
and sisters still living in Ethiopia as well as those settled in Israel,
has produced gorgeous hand-made Tallit bags for years. Now they are
producing Talitot, made by Ethiopians still in Addis Ababa, waiting
for their moment of Aliya to Israel. I purchased one last August at
the CAJE conference, and wherever I go, people comment on its beauty
and ask me where they can get their own. Contact NACOEJ: 212-233-5200,
NACOEJ@aol.com, www.nacoej.org to order.
C. Exquisite Silver Judaica
Bayit Cham in B’nai B’rak brings hope and rehabilitation for
individuals recovering from severe mental distress. One of those individuals
reached by Shmuel Munk and Yoram Mordechai, the founders, is a master
silversmith, and his Kiddush cups, candlesticks, Mezuzot and other ritual
items are worthy and gorgeous additions to any home or synagogue. Contact
Shmuel at 011-972-51-598-660, baitcham@zahav.net.il. To view some of
the items: www.bayit-cham.com/.
D. For Beged Kefet Fans
For those of you who love the tunes of Beged Kefet, we are
happy to announce that this talented group of artists, most of them
Cantors and Rabbis, has just released its third album, One Little Dot.
As with their previous albums and their personal appearances, proceeds
from this new release will benefit the work of Myriam’s Dream, a very
special organization guided by the efforts of the late Myriam Mendilow.
It was Myriam who believed that by giving our Elders meaningful work,
they could live the last years of their lives with respect and dignity.
Copies of the CD are available from Robert Kraus at kraus907@cs.com
or checks written to MYRIAM’S DREAM for $18 plus $2 amount of postage
can be mailed to: Robert Kraus, Treasurer, MYRIAM’S DREAM, 907 Four
Seasons Drive, Wayne NJ 07470.
XVIII. BRING IN THE CLOWNS
Mitzvah clowning isn’t about juggling or card tricks. It’s
about bringing some fun and joy to kids and adults in hospitals and
other institutions or anywhere people might be sad or worn down by their
troubles. We have made major inroads in Mitzvah clowning through Mike
and Sue Turk (a.k.a. Sweetpea and Buttercup) and their many training
sessions conducted around the U.S. In Israel, over the past year and
a half, Sivan Slapak has been Ziv’s main Mitzvah Clown. Sivan has had
enormous success enhancing parties and celebrations in hospitals, nursing
homes, wherever her special talents and compassion are needed. She has
also become involved in training other groups to do their own Mitzvah
clowning. This past summer Sivan also served as one of our interns,
and in that position, she trained some of the United Synagogue Youth
Israel Pilgrimage groups. To learn more about Mitzvah clowning: sbclowns@aol.com,
www.mitzvahclowns.com. Yasher Koach to Mike, Sue, and Sivan.
XIX. A MESSAGE FROM THE MANAGING DIRECTOR
As I reviewed my message from the last November Update, I was
struck by just how much has changed in the past twelve months. Our time
in Israel this summer was remarkably different from the preceding summer
when it seemed as if bombs were exploding almost daily and everyone
wondered if life would ever return to what it was only a few years ago.
The atmosphere this summer was one of a nation resigned to a life of
daily threats. While threats had not ceased, people seemed to be going
about their business, cafés were bustling, tour buses were clogging
traffic at major intersections and even the venerable King David lobby
seemed to be a little busier than we had seen it before. And Ben Yehuda
Street, always a good barometer of tourist activity, occasionally appeared
to be like the “old days,” days when you had to walk with your arms
tight at your sides, against the crush of humanity. It was starting
to feel a little like “normal.”
But now, I remember the day we took a group of USY’ers to the
Egged bus terminal in Talpiot. The teen-agers had just finished packing
up bags of garinim (sunflower seeds — a bus driver’s greatest
treat) and peanuts, adding colorful personal notes of support for the
drivers. They stood in the depot and every time a bus pulled in after
a run they cheered the driver and handed him a bag of nuts. What a sight!
Young American teens with short shorts talking to the macho Israeli
bus drivers who were more than thrilled by the experience! Forget the
nuts! Halfway through, Danny walked away and then called me over. He
had a serious look on his face, and, as I approached, he pointed to
the rear of the depot. I gasped as I realized that the back of the lot
was really a holding area for bombed out Egged buses. Standing there
in front of me were some of the latest casualties of the terror. I was
sure that the first bus in the row was the ill-fated #14 (bombed only
a few days before we arrived) — it was a red and tan Egged — not the
usual bright green one, and the top looked as if someone had taken a
can opener and lifted it away, much like you would do to a can of sardines.
Danny called the teen-agers over and we showed them the corner of the
lot....It was a sobering experience for all of them and one that reminded
them that what they see on TV and read in the papers is very, very real...not
a made-for-TV film.
The other issue that became very clear to us almost from the
beginning of our stay was that terror and war were quickly taking a
back seat to the very serious downturn in the economy and the accompanying
hunger and poverty that was now plaguing even middle-class Israelis.
Not only were new programs popping up everywhere to meet the growing
need for food, but existing organizations were finding it difficult
if not impossible to meet the increased demand for their services. Hunger
insecurity was now front-page news in Israel. Stories appeared regularly
describing the youngster whose family could not provide him with a school
lunch or the worker who would show up for work on Sunday looking tired
and totally devoid of energy. When approached by his boss he reported
that, though he was working, he did not have enough food to get him
through the weekend. Single mothers marched to Jerusalem from distant
places to protest the budget cutbacks that would make it nearly impossible
for them to feed their hungry families. And, through it all, you could
not help but wonder — where is the money going to come from to meet
these needs? How long can a country under siege provide guns and butter?
Almost all of our Israeli projects were feeling the cutbacks and were
enormously grateful for whatever we could do to help them.
On the home scene, there have been some extraordinary changes
within our organization. As reported by Danny earlier in this report,
we now have Arnie Draiman, our Israel agent, working many more hours
each week on our behalf. And, as if that were not enough, we also have
our Chavayra, Merrill Alpert, learning with and assisting Arnie daily.
How wonderful this is! How many more Mitzvahs we can make happen! How
many more lives we can touch! Some days I almost feel as if I have to
pinch myself to be sure that I am not dreaming.
While my phone continues to ring with questions about Bar and
Bat Mitzvah projects and requests for meaningful ways to celebrate a
Simcha, I find that now more of my time is being spent advising others
on how to use their Tzedakah money in a way that will have the greatest
impact on truly changing lives. I am learning daily that Ziv’s model
and all that it encompasses — Mitzvah heroes, low overhead, the special
agent, designated giving — is what many people want to emulate in their
own giving.
I have also learned that with our vast network of contacts,
people on the frontlines, we can easily discover an individual or family
for whom a relatively small investment of Tzedakah dollars can make
a huge difference in their lives, or even, in some cases, turn their
lives around. It is this specific model, what we call the special agent,
that gives all of us the greatest boost. It takes very little to uncover
these situations and often it takes a relatively small sum to resolve
the problem. We are, in fact, saving the world one life at a time —
it is very powerful and very effective. See Danny’s notes
under the “Special Agent” heading if you wish to become part of this
special Tzedakah work.
At times, people have asked me if I ever feel frustrated by
the huge challenges we face with the needs of more than 130 programs
and the limited resources we bring to resolving those challenges. The
question truly stuns me because that particular frustration never really
enters my mind. There is rarely a day that goes by when I, as your agent,
have not been responsible for changing a life in some way — either big
or small. What awesome work I am privileged to do!
XX. A WORD OF TORAH
Nickole Evans, a high school student in Kennewick, WA, has
established quite a reputation for her many acts of goodness and kindness
to others. In an article I read about her, she is quoted, “I’m not
the smartest girl in the world, nor am I the most talented. What I have
is a heart.” And she uses her good heart to make good things happen.
Use all the SAT words you want: her deeds are multifarious, variegated,
multitudinous. In simple words, she loves to do good, and does a lot
of it. Her Mitzvah work calls to mind the statement from the Talmud
(Bava Metzia 87a): Rabbi Elazar says, “Tzaddikim-Good People say little
and do much.” It is in the doing that we are defined as people. Perhaps
with the right encouragement, Nickole, our wise teacher, will grow up
to be an Alice Jonah, or Ranya Kelly, or Anita Shkedi, changing the
world one person at a time.
One other exceptionally interesting quote, by a certain Anthony
J. D’Angelo, “Realize that if you have time to whine and complain
about something, then you have the time to do something about it.”
(Or as it appears on famous bumper stickers, “Quit yer whining!” — and
do something.)
XXI. CONCLUSION
It’s about passion. After all these years, I finally found
the word that was missing from many of Ziv’s messages – “passion.” We
— Naomi, Arnie, and I, are passionate about our Mitzvah work;
our donors are passionate about our work — the letters, phone
calls, e-mails, and faxes we receive are filled with passion,
and, of course, the Mitzvah Heroes themselves embody the highest form
of passion for Tikkun Olam imaginable. This is what attracts us to them.
Not a bureaucrat among them; no apparatchiks, no schmoozers, grifters,
con artists, machers, pseudo- and hyper-machers, kibitzers, not
a single schvitzer. Just plain, humble, passionate people
unwilling to accept the world as it is and determined to change it according
to their vision of how life should be.
All the More strength to all of you who join us in our Mitzvah
work!
Lechaim-To Life!